I have yet to actually announce my plans to the masses via facebook yet, but most of my close friends and family know already. And, surprisingly, everyone has been very supportive. Granted my dad and his fiance answered me mostly with silence and why it'll be
incredibly difficult to get a visa for Australia, but they didn't exactly NOT support me. So, you know, Im looking on the bright side. We will see how it continues to go the closer it gets.
I've been reading a lot of
Nomadic Matt's blog recently (fantastic if anyone wants to check it out), and in two different articles he says things that I have thought my whole life and figured I would share.
Everyone Says Im Running Away
"People assume that we are simply running away from our problems; running away from “the real world.” And to all those people who say that, I say to you — you’re right. Completely right. I
am running away. I
am trying to avoid life — I’m avoiding
your life. I’m running away from
your idea of the “real” world. Because, really, I am running
toward everything — toward the world, exotic places, new people, different cultures, and my own idea of freedom."
The Secret To Long Term Traveling
"I’m a big believer in the idea that we shouldn’t work our life away and that we should take short breaks from it to pursue our passions. Why should I spend my best years in an office, saving money for an age I may not even see or, if I do see, might be too sick to enjoy? Yeah, we long term travelers save a bit for a rainy day, but we don’t worry about the future. We enjoy now. Take care of your present and your future works out. When I stop traveling, I’ll figure out what is next."
I can not even describe how bizarre and uplifting it is to read my own words coming out of someone else's mouth (hands?). For the first time in my life I have come to the realization that my life long dream, the dream I have had since I can remember to travel indefinitely, is something a lot of people already do. They make it work. They make money abroad and live globally instead of confined to the city limits. I know now, more than ever, that my dream is no longer this fantastical idea that I will always fantasize about, it is actually very attainable. I just have to put in the effort to make it happen. I have to not be satisfied with being content. I dont want to be comfortable. Ever.
In
Colin Wright's book
How To Travel Full Time he says exactly that. Again, my own words coming from someone else is trippy,
"As a general rule, try to avoid comfort at all costs.
There's a big difference between comfort and happiness: being happy means that you are overjoyed about what you're doing, who you are, the people you're meeting and the things that you're doing. Being comfortable means that you're not feeling too bad or too good...you're neutral.
Neutral is what suburbs are for. Comfort is for people who are looking to relax, not to grow and learn and experience new things. you may save yourself from potential lows by keeping yourself comfortable, in an easy-chair, watching reality TV and eating Doritos, but you won't experience any truly happy moments either. You need the bad (or even just the possibility of bad) to truly experience the good, and to fully appreciate the difference between the two."
My apologies for so many quotes in this post, but I really couldn't have said it better myself. These are the things I believe, I have
always believed. And if you know me at all, you know it to be true. Now that I can finally see my goal in sight, I can allow myself to research and delve into all the information the internet, books, and people have to offer. It's happening. And knowing there are people out there right now living the life I always dreamt about (and felt it was so strange that no one else around me had the same awe-inspiring dream) is an incredible feeling. It feels more real now than it ever has before. And I
can not wait.